1.
Having the continuous reassuring
presence in labour of another woman, who has had a positive experience of birth
herself (your mum, sister, friend, midwife, doula), seriously increases your
chance of having a straightforward vaginal birth. The government recommends all women be told
this.
2.
Birth is an involuntary bodily function
controlled by the autonomic nervous system, which also controls your breathing,
digestion, going to the loo and other automatic functions over which you have
very little control, except to stop or slow it down. Labour will be easier, quicker and less
painful if you feel safe and in control enough to let go and let it happen,
letting the hormones flow and the muscles work.
3.
When you go into labour you should stop
thinking about what you have learnt and simply tune in to your instincts and do
what your body tells you to do. Tune out from the world.
4.
Planning
a home birth triples your chance of avoiding a caesarean, or assisted birth and
also improves outcomes for mother and baby across the board, inc. length of
labour and amount of pain. Everyone should at least consider this option. After all, by planning for a home birth you
are maximising your options – you can still go into hospital at any time.
5.
Cocoon yourself in labour to let the
birth hormones flow freely. You need to
feel secure and in control enough to let go and let it happen. Fear makes your
uterine muscles contract and labour more painful; fear releases adrenaline
which slows down or stops the flow of the birth hormones. Let your birth
partners be your advocates and protectors – let them deal with any
hassles. Be a queen.
6.
The uterus is a muscle and so you need
to apply what you know about how muscles work best – be relaxed, breathe
steadily, keep hydrated and fed. Labour
can be physically demanding.
7.
‘Breathing through contractions’ is
simply breathing out through your mouth in a rhythm. By concentrating on your out breath, you keep
your breathing steady (not holding your breath, nor breathing too fast), you
get oxygen to your muscles and your baby, you will be more relaxed, and it
gives you something to focus on, all of which reduces the pain.
8. In a midwife group in London almost 80%
of women (not having operative deliveries) had no form of artificial pain
relief. You can reduce pain of
contractions by having good support, relaxing your body (go saggy with the
pain), using distraction and positive thoughts, being upright and mobile,
breathing steadily, looking after your muscle, using water, massage, and making
the most of the interval between contractions (pacing yourself). Women who think they will be able to cope
report less pain than women who think labour will be unbearable.
9.
Pharmacological methods of pain relief
use either muscle relaxants, mind-altering drugs, or interrupters of nerve
messages. By using the methods above to
relax your muscles, change your perception of the pain, or to interrupt the
pain messages, you can go longer without these, or work with them to make them
move effective.
10.
It is not just important to have the
baby’s head down, your birth will be smoother if the baby’s back is towards
your front. In late pregnancy there are
things you can do to move the baby round; in labour, keep upright and leaning
forward, moving (walking, marching, whatever your body tells you) and be
prepared for a longer labour.
REMEMBER: It is your body, your baby,
your birth. It is the law of this land that everything
is your decision. Health
professionals can only recommend an action.
This applies to everything from where you give birth to having any
treatment, including being induced.
